Most spanking parties are spanking-only. Many of us enjoy all sorts of wonderful fetishes, but the only type of play normally allowed at a spanking party is spanking (which DOES include flogging and whipping the buttocks.) Other kinds of play are, of course, allowed in your private hotel rooms.
The only type of nudity allowed in the party area is bare bottoms. Suite parties are up to the host’s discretion. Nudity is allowed at the alternative/BDSM party.
No sexual activity is allowed in the public party areas. If you get lucky (woohoo!), take it to your private hotel room, or the alternative/BDSM party! (You know, “Get a room!”)
IMPORTANT: Please make sure to wear appropriate clothing in the lobby/elevators or anywhere a vanilla guest may see you. This includes clothing with words or phrases that are kinky. Do not talk about the party or kinky talk if a guest/s are in an elevator/close to you in a public area… this is just common sense, “vanillas” do not share our point of view or want to know about our kink being forced on them when they are on vacation/business.
IGNORING A SAFEWORD IS CAUSE FOR REMOVAL FROM THE PARTY. Red for stop, yellow for take it easy, and green for go go go.
You MUST wear your nametag at ALL TIMES. It not only lets other partygoers know your name and inclination (red, blue, green, yellow), which leads to more play, but also helps us keep out party-crashers. (It is also your ticket to the three dinners, vendor fair, and demos.) We will be much stricter this year regarding this policy in order to help promote
Please no play in the non-private hotel areas, or the areas that are blocked off as ours. You can play in the ballroom area, but don’t do stuff in the halls people!
Do not interfere with anyone else’s play. Do make yourself comfortable and watch, but don’t involve yourself unless invited.
If you want to engage in role-play, please do, but let some nearby folks know. (Role-play can appear to be non-consensual.)
While alcohol is not against the rules, anyone who is inebriated will not be allowed to play. (And no illegal drugs of any kind are allowed.)
No photographs without EXPRESS consent from EVERYONE in the picture, including those in the background. This is strictly enforced & we expect others to call you out if you do take pictures or video without consent.
You are responsible for your own room. Any and all damages in your room are your responsibility. And obviously, please don’t damage anything in the party areas. We are not made of money to cover those kinds of costs!
Dress-code for public spaces (which includes the BALLROOM)
Under garments must be worn at ALL TIMES!
If you are planning to be spanked in the ballroom for the spanking booth or anything else you must wear your underwear or a thong. Same at the evening dinners/dance, no bare bottoms!
You may be nude (bare bottom) in our Dungeon Party and you may be bare bottom in any of our private events where hotel staff will not be present – such as the rooms on the 2nd floor that we are holding events and our hospitality suites.
IMPORTANT: We are repeating this again! Please make sure to wear appropriate clothing in the lobby/elevators or anywhere a vanilla guest may see you. This includes clothing with words or phrases that are kinky. Do not talk about the party or kinky talk if a guest/s are in an elevator/close to you in a public area… this is just common sense, “vanillas” do not share our point of view or want to know about our kink being forced on them when they are on vacation/business.
We don’t want to risk losing the amazing venue – so please follow these rules and be respectful of others and hotel staff in the hotel. Thank you and see you soon!
*IMPORTANT: We will be updating this page with more rules regarding CONSENT with a zero-tolerance policy for any violators of this most sacred trust in any play/behavior. More to come…